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As far as my parents know, I don't even know what sex is. I'm of age, so it really doesn't matter. What my parents don't know, won't hurt them, right? Anyway, I've never told my parents anything about me liking yaoi. The only people who know are my friends from college and my closest friends I've known since elementary school.

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they know of my hobby and find it funny nor dont care about it, the way i like.

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No, it's not really any of their business!

 

I've got enough questionable-looking manga on my bookshelves that if they picked them up to leaf through they'd probably be quite confused, but I don't think they've ever looked. I attend an anime convention every year with BL and Yaoi panels, but they've never asked specifically what I do while I'm there so I've not needed to explain it.

 

I've got BL fanart around my room too, but it's surrounded by enough other art that they probably don't notice it. If they do, then they just don't care. It was a bigger concern for me when I was younger because I didn't have my own computer and I was more paranoid, but I don't really care now.

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mm..my big brother knows that I love yaoi(but he did not know that I love hardcore or R18 stuff)..but suddenly he told mom that I love yaoi...haha then my brother explains what yaoi is and..she said: "what?! you'll become a lesbian..why are you reading that kind of thing?" and da-da-da...she asked me if i'm gay or a girl..haha XDD damn..but then she didn't care that I freaking love yaoi..hahaha

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I don't know if it actually came up, or if mom put 2 and 2 together, since she knows I like anime, and that I'm gay, but yaoi never got mentioned, really. It's not something I'd hide, though.

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My parents know at i like yaoi

 

Here is my story

It was one time When i was on this RP with somebody

When my father asked me what i was doing and i tell him at i was just writing something but he still want to know

What i was writing and i have not choice to tell him truth at i was on YO site RP and YO site was all about yaoi and now he knows but he dont care much about that at all and the same are for my mom.

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Lol I wouldn't dare tell my mom I can see her now I will never hear the end of it and please don't let me very started on my dad they will think something wrong with me

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Nope.

 

UNless I become a yaoi mangaka of some sort. It'd be awkward to not be able to tell parents what I do for a (partial) living.

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.NOPE and never. Talking Homo stuffs with them is taboo. Though they might be open-minded, I just couldn't take the risk.

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Hahahahaha!! ME? tell MY parents?!!! if i did, i'd be dead, youguys would be dead, humanity will be exterminated!! telling my parents= trigger of the apocalypse... believe me, you don't want to see that...

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You'd be surprised at what your parents will know or have guess but not mentioned because its embarrassing to talk about. I've never told my parents as such but I was reading Junjo Romantica in the living room and my mum asked what i was reading I said "Gay, romantic manga" (she knows what manga is)... Her reply "Is it any good?"

 

My parents are very accepting and to be fair my dad bought my mum a box of 30'ish Mills & Boon type books off ebay a couple of months back.

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I still havent told my mom cause im scared of her :sad:

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My dad knows about it lol He has seen all the yaoi mangas coming in through the mail lol

He's a little spooked out by the r-18 tags but otherwise,he's fine with it.That doesn't mean that i read it in the livingroom though (god no!!).

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Don't plan on telling them any time soon, but my mum reads Mill and Boon in public so I'd say she probably wouldn't lynch me.

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I never had the chance to tell Mom- she passed away early.

 

But when I showed my dad and brother... their reactions were exactly what I expected.

 

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onionn6

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Is it alright if I but in? lol

I would probably be carrying this secret from my family until my last dying breath :hamtaro-005 (6):

Only I could tell this to my closest friends.But my family?A big NO NO onionn3

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I might tell anyone but my family. Would be so awkward... coupled with that other awkward conversation you'd have to have.

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I guess I'm kinda lucky. My mom actually is into yaoi too. It shocked me because I had no idea she was until began recommending different series to me.

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You're not "kinda lucky" you're "the luckiest person ever" rabbit4

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In fact she's the one who showed me this site too.......she's............

 

 

 

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ohh c'mon can we switch families, please? rabbit13

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No but if you ask sweetly she may adopt you

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My mom would not have a clue and I am the one that got my adult kids involved.....well one of them...the other just shakes his head and sighs.....they once again have confirmed that mom is weird...but they knew that all along

 

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.....you are grounded!!!!!!

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hehehehehe if im grounded then ill eat your present

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