DyingRemnant33 Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 If I had a girlfriend, and we're loving eachother and she's on top...is she considered a seme only cuz she just on top. But like what if I didn't want to do any work at all even if it were boyXboy cuz what if the person on top wasn't really demanding or in control of the relationship and the person on the bottom just didn't wanna do any work. Is there anything that would say the seme could be on the bottom for once, can that work? 1
Guest ReincarnatedRainbow Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 Yes, it's called the real world. You do realize that relationships, whether gay or straight, aren't categorized into seme/uke, right? Sometimes a person is on top, sometimes they're on bottom. Sure, there are a few people in the world who claim to be strictly on bottom or strictly on top, but they are in the minority. Also, how demanding or "in control" a person is has absolutely nothing to do with their sex position. Please don't take the seme/uke archetype so seriously. It's all bull, in the end.
DyingRemnant33 Posted August 17, 2012 Author Posted August 17, 2012 Alright, I didn't even know that..just curious 1
nitta Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 Uke need to seducing Seme, it's time for Uke who have the control but Seme is still as a stick not hole 1
Jade Li Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 Yes, it's called the real world. You do realize that relationships, whether gay or straight, aren't categorized into seme/uke, right? Sometimes a person is on top, sometimes they're on bottom. Sure, there are a few people in the world who claim to be strictly on bottom or strictly on top, but they are in the minority. Also, how demanding or "in control" a person is has absolutely nothing to do with their sex position. Please don't take the seme/uke archetype so seriously. It's all bull, in the end. My thoughts exactly. 1
Guest ReincarnatedRainbow Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 My thoughts exactly. Someone who agrees and isn't so delusional. I feel like crying precious tears of happiness. Alright, I didn't even know that..just curious Seriously? Or are you being sarcastic? Not that I'd be insulted if you were, just simply wondering.
toby2663 Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 Well put concise accurate and to the point,as a bottom my self whilst I dont ever top I do like to take charge every now and again its fun. 1
Ero Gaki Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 Yes, it's called the real world. You do realize that relationships, whether gay or straight, aren't categorized into seme/uke, right? Sometimes a person is on top, sometimes they're on bottom. Sure, there are a few people in the world who claim to be strictly on bottom or strictly on top, but they are in the minority. Also, how demanding or "in control" a person is has absolutely nothing to do with their sex position. Please don't take the seme/uke archetype so seriously. It's all bull, in the end. Agree
〜キキ〜 Posted September 2, 2013 Posted September 2, 2013 Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. It simply depends on how you define 'seme' and 'uke'; I think we all have a good idea of what they mean in the context of yaoi, but in real life someone personality, gender identity, gender expression, sexual orientation, etc. can all be quite different and seemingly contradictory. This makes it quite hard to use these two terms in real life contexts. TBH I don't think that labels like 'seme' and 'uke' are that important; if they work for you, great! But if they don't, you can invent your own label or even not use one at all... I mean the only reason that we have the words "same" and "uke" is to convey an idea that is used often, but if two people are truly in love then they shouldn't need to use standardized words to convey who they are; they should just be themselves.
Ero Gaki Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. It simply depends on how you define 'seme' and 'uke'; I think we all have a good idea of what they mean in the context of yaoi, but in real life someone personality, gender identity, gender expression, sexual orientation, etc. can all be quite different and seemingly contradictory. This makes it quite hard to use these two terms in real life contexts. True dat !
Musica Posted September 3, 2013 Posted September 3, 2013 *clears throat* ehem! When two people make love with each other... they do it as an expression of their feelings,,, and not to validate any role like seme or uke or whatsoever... so they can do it in any position they want... P.s. if the uke is on top,, I'm sure the seme is having a great view.. lol
Gatichan Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 haha- well put, Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links.
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